I'm getting this on ghost
select `sessions`.* from `sessions` where `sessions`.`session_id` = '[hidden]' limit 1 - read ECONNRESET
So this guy talks about it. (google translate)
Looks like I can keep pinging ghost with something - to make it keep the connection open, or set some configuration in mysql.
I'm going to try changing the database connection pool minimum to 0 as described here.
That's it deployed to home.
That seems to work so I'll put it on DO.